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From Fear to Control: What Self-Hosting Gave Me

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From Fear to Control: What Self-Hosting Gave Me A DIFFERENT KIND OF POST I'll confess something. When I first started experimenting with self-hosted services, it wasn't because I wanted a cool homelab. It wasn't because I wanted to play with Docker, firewalls, VLANs, or enterprise-grade networking. It started from something much simpler. Need. And fear. I had old equipment sitting around collecting dust. Hardware that technically still worked, but had no purpose anymore. At the same time, I felt an increasing need for something I couldn't fully get from consumer-grade solutions: control. I wanted more security. I wanted more visibility. Most importantly, I wanted to better protect my children. That was the real beginning. Like many parents, I tried the usual tools first. I explored what Google Family Link offered. I tried the parental controls built into Microsoft Windows Family Safety. I tested schedules, device restrictions, app limits, and whatever...

When One Problem Turns Into Two

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When One Problem Turns Into Two The calm before... This post contains Amazon affiliate links. If you purchase through them, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Every product mentioned here is something I personally own and use. I'd enjoyed almost a month of absolute peace. My OPNsense firewall was working flawlessly, without a single outage. It was performing so well that, to be honest, I'd fallen into that dangerous state of complacency where you don't even check the logs or the connection. You simply assume everything will be fine forever. Until this morning. At 7:01 AM, I sat down at my computer ready to start the workday and was met with the worst possible screen: No connection. At first, nothing made sense. The infrastructure had been stable for weeks. The OptiPlex running OPNsense was powered on. The NUC was powered on. Physical links? At first glance, all good. Ever...

Google Photos Was Free. Until It Wasn't. Here's My Setup Now.

I Trusted Google With Ten Years of Memories. Then the Rules Changed. The problem... The problem... Photography has always been one of my favorite hobbies. Not professionally — I never went that route. But personally, I've taken photos of everything that matters to me: family moments, projects, travel, random memories, everyday life. Back in 2015, I discovered Google Photos. Honestly, it felt revolutionary. Before that, managing photos was a mess — my phone constantly filled up, I had to manually copy everything to external hard drives, and I ended up with four or five different drives scattered everywhere. Finding a specific photo from years ago meant remembering which drive had it, connecting it, and hoping I'd organized things correctly. Google Photos changed all of that. Every photo available instantly from anywhere. Search by face, color, event, date, location, objects inside the image. If I wanted photos of my wife, I could simply search for her face. At the time, it felt ...