From Fear to Control: What Self-Hosting Gave Me
From Fear to Control: What Self-Hosting Gave Me A DIFFERENT KIND OF POST I'll confess something. When I first started experimenting with self-hosted services, it wasn't because I wanted a cool homelab. It wasn't because I wanted to play with Docker, firewalls, VLANs, or enterprise-grade networking. It started from something much simpler. Need. And fear. I had old equipment sitting around collecting dust. Hardware that technically still worked, but had no purpose anymore. At the same time, I felt an increasing need for something I couldn't fully get from consumer-grade solutions: control. I wanted more security. I wanted more visibility. Most importantly, I wanted to better protect my children. That was the real beginning. Like many parents, I tried the usual tools first. I explored what Google Family Link offered. I tried the parental controls built into Microsoft Windows Family Safety. I tested schedules, device restrictions, app limits, and whatever...